Sixty-Nine (69)
What is a 69?
A sixty-nine (69) is a sex position in which two people lay down facing each other’s genitals to simultaneously perform oral sex. The position is popular among people of all orientations, including gay and lesbian couples.
Variations of the 69 position include the standing 69, which was voted the least comfortable sex position, and the little-known 68, in which the person on top is facing the other way and the person on the bottom takes up all the hard work—which is great for blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming!
Advantages of the 69 Position
There are some of the most important advantages of the 69 position:
- It’s the most effective way for a couple to perform oral sex simultaneously;
- It invites people to explore their partner’s body while also being sexually stimulated;
- Since you need to focus not just on your pleasure but also on your partner’s pleasure, 69s are great for delaying orgasms during foreplay;
- If done right, the diverse range of sensory experiences produced during a 69 can intensify orgasms.
Tips for a Great 69
Are you getting tired of the same-old 69? Here’s how you can make things even more interesting in the bedroom:
- Make sure you and your partner are comfortable before starting to play;
- Remember to use your hands in addition to your mouth to simulate other erogenous zones;
- Incorporate lube and sex toys such as butt plugs for added pleasure;
- Wash yourself thoroughly before every 69 (and make sure your partner does the same).